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The What & The Why

I want to share an approach with you that has helped me navigate life. I have simply called it "the What & the Why"...

We can find it easy to notice the What.

The What is generally obvious.

There comes meaning and relevance when we look at the Why.

The Why is where we can begin to find answers, interpret meaning, discover those all important lessons to learn.

Take what happened recently as a great example...

Academy Award winning actor Will Smith slapped a show host in the middle of proceedings.

That is the What.

It will probably be remembered and replayed for years to come. And it will at the very least be a meme that the internet community will revile in...well until the next "what moment" comes along that is big enough to overshadow it.

Understanding the Why is something that I find brings meaning, understanding, context.

There was offence taken to a joke featuring Mr Smiths wife.

There seems to be history between the host and Mr Smiths wife, as she has been the basis of another joke at the same event years before. And maybe the Why could be found in the myriad of personal life choices this couple are currently navigating?

In science it is easy to find a what, but the Why, well that is where the magic happens...

An apple fell on a mans head one day.

The What was that the apple fell on his head.

The Why began the journey to discover the universal truth of something we call gravity.

For years I have been lovingly mocked in my household for my ongoing fascination with 20th Century history, in particular the major conflicts that marked that time period.

For me the What is obvious. Two World Wars were fought. Millions died. The world dramatically changed.

The Why is what I look to to understand. To try and begin to make sense of it all.

Why did they happen? Who was key to the moments that lead to the war? What was the justification? Where was the motivation?

Right now if you life you might be dealing with a lot of the What?

And it is possibly bothering you that you don't understand the meaning behind it? You maybe find it is hampering your progress? Maybe it is causing you unwanted pain?

Can I encourage you to not be afraid to look graciously, carefully, at the Why?

Maybe you struggling with an addiction?

Or maybe a bad habit?

Stating again and again that you have one hasn't changed anything for you. It is simply stating for yourself the obvious.

When you begin to understand the Why, that is a powerful moment for you, and then in turn for those around you. Healing and hope can then begin to come.

I don't think it is wrong to ask the Why, just be kind to yourself in the process.

Sometimes it can take a while and that is ok as well, you will get there.

And don’t expect to always like what you discover, but recognise the revelation of discovery is what you probably need.

A brave person never just settles for the What, they press onto look at the Why.

A wise person carefully considers what they learn from this process and what, if any, response there should be.

Something to think about...

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